21st Century Leadership Advice From The Amish

Pruning Sheers“Better to be pruned to grow then cut up to burn.”
                                                              John Trapp

Following their harvest of apples and pears every year, Amish farmers take on the chore of pruning all the orchards.

The Amish long ago discovered that trimming limbs, and removing the dead wood, has a powerful and regenerative effect.  Sufficient pruning stimulates new growth ensuring next season’s crop is both bountiful and flavorful.

But nature makes a grower pay a steep price when branches are sheared too severely.  Trees take longer to recover and fruit yields are substantially reduced.  Consequently, a fear of over-cutting makes pruning ones’ own groves a particularly tenuous and even painful task.

The Amish, however, found a brilliant solution to this dilemma, one that reveals a keen understanding of human nature.  They discovered it was much easier for them to pare-down someone else’s trees rather than their own.

On a designated day at the onset of winter, all the farmers meet, shake hands, and then set off to independently perform a neighbor’s trimming.  At dusk, the men return to the town square to express their mutual appreciation.  Each returns home certain they were more the beneficiary than the benefactor in the exchange.

I love this Amish practice as an inspiring example of what can be accomplished through true cooperation and trust.  The community has been able to thrive for centuries because of this simple yet remarkable arrangement.

But buried inside this little gem is also an invaluable insight: We’re often able to advise and help others in ways we’re far less capable of doing for ourselves. 

This wisdom is particularly helpful to anyone who seeks to grow increasingly more effective, and fruitful, as a leader.

After I completed writing the first chapter of my book, I shared it with my best friend in hopes of gaining his validation.  Therefore, it was thrilling and heartening when he later told me the quality of the writing was as good as anything he’d ever read professionally.  After congratulating me, he urged me to move on to write the next chapter.

I worked especially long and hard on that next installment and gave it to my friend weeks later in the belief it was as good as, if not better, than the work he had seen before.  And so it came as a real disappointment, and a surprise, when he told me my newest submission was unclear and needed re-writing.  He’ll refute this, but I remember him calling that work “ a mess.”  He most certainly told me that I could do much better. Continue reading

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Your Heart Has A Mind Of Its Own

We have two brains: heart and mindIt is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what’s is essential is invisible to the eye.”
                                                 Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Many years ago, I spent the day with the CEO of the bank where I worked, and asked him to give me his best piece of leadership advice.

His response came quickly.  “When it comes to managing people,” he told me, “make decisions with your head, and implement them with your heart.”

I remember being impressed by this.  It seemed very thoughtful and even enlightened.  Yet the core of his message was that business decisions must always be made by our minds, alone – an extremely common belief then as it remains today.

Thanks to recent scientific research, however, we now know that the heart is not just a beating organ, it’s a thinking one.  And, just like having another person in the room to provide a second opinion, the heart offers unique insights.  Hearts have a mind of their own.

Tied to this new understanding, we’re well advised to ask our hearts to weigh in on decisions and to render their assessments – before any implementation commences.  But how many of us in business ever make this consultation?  Don’t we all really believe the heart’s voice must be tuned out – that whatever it has to say will misguide us?

Here’s a story I hope will influence you to more consistently consult your heart when making important decisions and to trust what it’s telling you.

In his classic book, Influence, Dr. Robert Cialdini, describes an interaction he had with a person who showed up at his house one warm summer evening and rang his doorbell:

I answered my door “to find a stunning young woman dressed in shorts and a revealing halter top.  I noticed, nonetheless, that she was carrying a clipboard and was asking me to participate in a survey.  Wanting to make a favorable impression, I agreed….”

Cialdini doesn’t explain why he felt compelled to make a good impression on his solicitor, yet we can certainly imagine him sucking in his middle-age gut as he welcomed her into his house.

“I’m doing a survey on the entertainment habits of people and am hoping you can answer a few questions for me,” she began.   “Can you tell me how many nights a week you go out to dinner on average?”

At his ego’s direction, apparently, Cialdini assumed the identity of a continental, a man-about-town who enjoys all the finer things in life.  “I love restaurants,” he crowed.  “I eat out three or four times a week.”

“How nice,” she said.  “And do you usually order wine with your dinner?” Continue reading

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Act Swiftly On Performance Problems

Snowball Fight

Procrastination is the enemy of the leader….

When I was ten-years-old, I became a paperboy.

Six days a week – all year long – my responsibility was to get people their papers at the same general time each day and, once a week, to knock on doors and collect my pay.

Here’s a quick story of one experience I had along my route that taught me an invaluable lesson about life – and leadership.

A day after over a foot of snow had fallen, I bundled up in warm clothing and trudged through the streets carrying all my papers.  It was impossibly cold out and I was weary from the task before I’d made it to half of my houses.

As I reached the long walkway of my last customer’s home, I felt a sense of exhilaration knowing I was a responsible kid who kept his commitments in brutal weather.

But just after delivering the paper, two boys who lived there came out from behind a tree and pelted me with a stream of snowballs.  Completely caught off guard, I was hit in the face and in the back – and these kids were unrelenting!

While unaccustomed to surprise attacks like this, I knew what to do whenever someone threw a snowball at me.  Fight back! Continue reading

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These Days, We’re All Disgruntled Workers

Unhappy Workers Readying To Quit

The average Goldman Sachs employee earns in excess of $350,000 per year, and we’re assured Greg Smith, who most visibly quit his job there last week, was paid substantially more.

And, in leaving his long-time employer, Smith didn’t abandon just a fat salary. To regain his career freedom, he knowingly forfeited a considerable sum in deferred compensation as well.

Most people in the world, of course, can only dream of being so highly paid for their work, so it’s a good assumption that a very large percentage of the working population has summarily judged Smith’s resignation as an act of complete insanity.

If they could coach him, they would say: “Go back to Goldman, Greg!  You have a terrific deal!  Subordinate your concerns about a declining corporate culture and profit-at-any-cost leadership. You have a penthouse to go home to at night!”

But this scenario is a complete fantasy. Regardless how little or much they are making, U.S. workers have begun to quit their jobs – in droves – to go in search of organizations, and leaders, they feel will better support their needs. As Smith’s actions show us, pay no longer is the driver of engagement or job satisfaction it once was.

Last year, a MetLife study published in USA Today showed that at least one in three U.S. workers was quietly planning their departure and already had begun looking for a new job. Stunningly, the report noted that most bosses were oblivious to how unhappy and inherently disengaged their employees had become, and would be caught flat-footed when their workers walked out. Continue reading

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Why Leaders Owe Greg Smith A Debt Of Gratitude

 

Goldman Sachs' Greg Smith

Goldman Sachs' Greg Smith

There is something in the pang of change.
More than the heart can bear,
Unhappiness remembering happiness.

Euripides

Just one day after Goldman Sachs’ employee, Greg Smith, quit his job last week, more than three million people had read his über-public resignation letter published as an editorial in the New York Times.

In light of the financial meltdown and all the pain it caused, it’s certain many readers sought to confirm suspicions that Wall Street long has been driven by greed at the expense of the public’s interest.

Smith alleges as much saying that during sales meetings, “not one single minute is spent asking questions about how we can help clients.  It’s purely about how we can make the most possible money off of them.”  Pointedly, Smith reveals that his former colleagues routinely and callously discussed ways of “ripping their clients off.”

But there is something in the way the thirty-two-year-old Smith quit his job – and the only organization for which he’d ever worked since becoming a college intern – that appears to be piquing an even greater amount of our interest.

In order to preserve future career options, virtually all workers go to great lengths to make their exits as amicable as possible.  So, how are we to reconcile the wild and seemingly irrational behavior of this intelligent and well-educated Mr. Smith?  He must know what we do – that his career on Wall Street (at thirty-two!) is over.  He’s burned a bridge with every investment bank operating in the world today.

Some are predicting that Smith has a book deal or some other imminent and exploitive way of earning a big payday for quitting so publicly and dramatically.  Time will tell.

I’m not as cynical in my interpretation of Smith’s motivations and believe he’ll soon prove to be an honorable and courageous whistle blower, someone who cares very deeply about Goldman Sachs (even if he can no longer stay) and genuinely wants it to recover the values it once stood for – before it’s too late.

A former long-term and senior Goldman Sachs employee told me last week he also believes his old company is not what it once was.  “The values of caring for customers over profits always ranked highest,” he insisted.

I detected a sense of wistfulness in his remark – an indication that he still carries a deep fondness for his alma mater and wished what Smith had written wasn’t true.

According to my friend, Goldman Sachs once had a truly sterling culture, one that equivalently esteemed all constituencies: clients, employees and the organization’s profit.  “The word ‘employee’ was even seen as a pejorative,” he said.  “Engagement was so high that no one wanted to think of themselves as just an employee.  We were all wedded to the firm.”

What both my friend and Smith were clear on is that Goldman Sachs leadership team somehow has strayed from their original gold-standard values and has inherently changed for the worse.  Smith described the firm as once having the driving ideals of “teamwork, integrity, a spirit of humility and always doing right by clients.”  He believed “this culture was the secret sauce that made this place great and allowed us to earn our client’s trust for 143 years.”

As an explanation for his resignation, he said “I am sad to say I look around and see virtually no trace of the culture that made me love working for this firm for many years.  I no longer have the pride or the belief.”

While Goldman Sachs’ CEO, Lloyd Blankfein, and President, Gary D. Cohn defensively chose to characterize Mr. Smith as “disgruntled” and attempted to further discredit him by referring to him as just one of “12,000 Vice Presidents” amongst the firm’s 30,000 employees, the organization should instead be thanking him.

Goldman Sachs’ profit-at-any-cost mentality has been put under an unflattering spotlight and Smith’s high-octane exit likely will become the catalyst for positive and needed change.  Should Goldman Sachs act swiftly and authentically to this end, in fact, they’re very likely to retain clients and employees – and thrive for the foreseeable future.

But leaders across American business should also thank Greg Smith for resigning in such a visible way.  That’s because Smith has called attention to a major shift in what people need in order to thrive and be fully engaged in their jobs.  Pay alone – even very high pay like Smith earned – no longer can be counted on to drive employee commitment and loyalty.

What many leaders haven’t noticed is that the needs of all workers have radically changed.  The evidence of this is that millions of people have begun to walk away from their jobs, even though 12 million people still are unemployed and jobs remain scarce, because those needs are not being met.

The payroll company, ADP, reported that more people quit jobs in February than in any month since the Great Recession began.  And numerous studies predict that at least one-in-three US workers are actively seeking a new job.  Most of this discontent is because people have lost faith in the leaders for whom they work.

Employee engagement research produced by New York’s Conference Board shows that workers (human beings) now have five critical needs that must be met before they can fully put their hearts into work.  People want to contribute to the success of an organization they respect, work for a trustworthy, caring and empowering boss, have opportunities to grow and develop, be given reasonable job variety, and have their efforts recognized and valued.

And, all across the world, these matter more to people than pay.

In a highly public way, Greg Smith has shown that what people require in order to be inspired and fully committed in their jobs has irreversibly changed.  Pay, in all of its forms, no longer will inspire commitment and engagement as it once had.  Twenty-first century employees are seeking to find fulfillment and purpose through their work – a truly monumental shift in values.

For leaders to succeed, therefore, they must change (and rapidly) by adopting practices that support these higher human needs – in every employee they manage.

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